
Sunday, May 30, 2010
weekend naptime

Sunday, May 23, 2010
One month old
Okay, long time no post. I'm finding that Blogger is not the best way to get photos out to the world - or, at least, it's not as convenient as Flickr, to which I can directly upload an many photos as I want from iPhoto on the mac.
So today's post will consist mainly of a link to my flickr page...
But first, a one-month party story...
Chinese tradition is to celebrate the end of the first month of a baby's life (well...I guess the real tradition is to do this for boys only, but that's different these days). This is the end of the time when the baby and the mom are supposed to stay home, doing nothing but eat and sleep. Its also the end of the live-in mother or mother-in-law (who helps with cooking, cleaning, and baby care for the first month.) Given the difficulty of giving birth and getting a baby through the perils of the start of outside life (also a historic truth, but not far from true today) getting to one month is definitely cause for celebration.
The baby dresses in a good outfit, and wears gold jewelry. Owen had 2 gold bracelets and a gold medallion sewn onto his hat. These were both hand-me-downs that were used for the one-month party for Jayde's brother, Peter.
We celebrated with 2 special dishes - sticky rice (油飯)and a hard-boiled egg with the shell dyed red. We also had Thai food, Burmese tea leaf salad, Taiwanese cookies (or, at least, cookies made by a Taiwanese person) and some good ol' American cake.
This picture is Jayde's mom, with Owen in his special outfit.
For more pictures (of this party and lots else) go to:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/45091219@N07/sets/
Monday, May 3, 2010
Owen Geng-Ming Roberts
So here's the story behind his name:
We decided that he would have an "American" first name, and a Chinese middle name. (When he travels in China or Taiwan, he'll use Jayde's maiden name, Lin.)
The first name was the hardest to decide - we wanted to use a family name, but didn't find any that we both really liked. So we moved on to look at names from some of the multitude of baby name sites on the web, and we came across a site of Welsh names. My family is, at least partly, from Wales, so that seemed like a good list to consider. After rejecting Caddock, Gwalchmai, Rhydderch, and Ynyr, we found Owen, which has at least 2 origins. Owen is the British spelling of the Welsh variant (or is it the other way around?) of Eugene (meaning: "well-born"), my paternal grandfather's name. It also means "born of yew," which didn't mean much to us until we looked at what the yew tree represents - it's an evergreen, and can put down new shoots from branches and thus live a very long time (2000 years). It was a symbol of longevity and rebirth.
Ok...now on to the Chinese middle name. Most of this stuff I don't really understand, so this is my best guess so far.
Geng is a very old character that's one of the fundamental parts of Chinese cosmology, the seventh of ten heavenly branches. In Classical Chinese it is part of the name for Venus when it is in the west (the Evening Star). It's used as a counting word for the seventh part of something – like time. For instance, this lunar year is a Geng Yin year (the 27th year of the 60-year cycle) That's about all I know. We chose it because it creates a good balance with the rest of Owen's Chinese name, and is a character that Jayde and her parents all like. It's written 庚.
The Ming part is a generational name (that Jayde and I kind of made up) that's the second character of Jayde's brother's children, too. It's an old Chinese tradition to have a character that is shared for all the children of a particular generation within a family - Jayde's family doesn't really do this, but we wanted to. That character, 明 (which is made from the characters for sun and moon put together) means, most simply, 'bright'. Owen shares this character with his cousins, Tao and Ora (Jayde's brother Peter's children.)
Jayde's family name in Chinese is Lin 林, which is made up of two trees. It means forest. So altogether, Owen's Chinese name is 林庚明, Lin Geng-Ming.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Oh, and we did give him a name
I am saving a longer explanation of his name for a real post, but I realized I didn't mention that, in the end, we did not formally name our son 'Baby Tiger Roberts,' despite the big leg up that would have given him with the ladies and with job interviews. His name is Owen Geng-Ming Roberts. We're still calling him 小虎 (Xiao Hu, pronounced kind of like "shao who") which means 'Little Tiger'. This is a common format for nicknames in Chinese, to add 'Little' or 'Big' to some character in the name, or some personality trait.
Baby Tiger Cometh


Friday, April 16, 2010
Belly & Daisies
Oh Pointy Belly - Oh Pointy Pointy
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Showers of Love
Thank You Everyone!
Especially SARA, LOUISE, AND KATIE!
And thank you to all who made the delicious food! When I recover from my soon-to-be sleep-deprived state, I'll be asking for cooking lessons!
Those of you who know me well know that I have a strong aversion to all things sentimental. But...maybe I'm growing soft because I'm sure this shower will become one of my fondest memories. Oh treacle! ;p
Below are some pics.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Ardha Baddha Chandrasana - Bound Half Moon Pose

So, I'm taking yoga classes with an amazing lady who is an OB/GYN by day and a yoga teacher by night. How does she manage this? Who knows. The staff at the UW Medical Center seems to think that yoga enables this multi-tasking doctor to be a super and a super calm woman. Very impressive and inspiring.
Although I've danced since the age of 4 and have practiced Ashtanga yoga on and off for several years, I am encountering new postures in my current class. It is not a class designed for pregnancy but as my teacher is an OB/GYN, I figure she wouldn't let me do anything dangerous.
Here I am in a bound half moon pose. To be honest, I surprised myself when I got into the posture. Who knew one could wrap one's arm around one leg and bind the two arms together behind one's back and then raise the other leg up into the air?! Crazy!
I was certain I wouldn't be able to keep it up as my tummy got bigger but somehow, I managed today. So, you never know what a pregnant lady can do at 32 weeks and 4 days.
I doubt I can keep this up for long but whatever strength I build will certainly help me on the day of Baby Tiger's arrival. No?!
And...if you are interested in yoga, check out Two Dog Yoga in Lake City. I'm very happy to have been directed to this studio during my pregnancy. The super OB/GYN yoga teacher is there on Mondays and Thursdays.
Monday, March 8, 2010
Scrambling in the Womb

I wanted to have some kind of image in this posting so I found this online. It sort of captures the feeling I hope to convey.
2 or 3 nights ago when I turned over in my sleep, Baby Tiger did the most amazing scrambling to right himself. Apparently, he was in the perfect position and I disturbed him by moving from my right to my left side. It felt like frantic dog paddling with his little arms against the left side of his uterine home. It made me laugh because he apparently couldn't get any kind of hold or footing so had to scramble for quite a while. If I could act it out for you, you'd laugh too. It was very funny. Really!
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Babies before baby



Sunday, February 28, 2010
Mock C-Section
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Men Giving Birth

Lee is the rastafarian uterus. His job was to push the gigantic head of the plastic baby out of the knit uterus. He had to try several times.
The other 2 men held the plastic hip and something else I can't recall. The woman in red is our instructor who played the doctor assisting the birth.
The men did well and it only took about 5 minutes.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Baby Showers and Baby Gifts

As a part of that process, friends and family have asked if we have a gift registry. Well, now we do!
But before we get to that, we want to say that we have already been blessed with lots of second-hand baby clothes and other necessities. We love stuff with a history especially when it comes from family and friends!
So...the registry includes things we'll need and some extras like toys. We are of course clueless about most things so if you have some suggestions such as your favorite childhood book or an absolute lifesaver for parenting, please enlighten us! Also, if you know of good Chinese storybooks, we want to make sure Baby Tiger speaks Mandarin and reads Chinese. Good luck to us!
And...you can search for Lee or Jayde Roberts at http://www.amazon.com/babyregistry or http://www.birthandbeyond.com/registry1.html.
We look forward to seeing you in March!
The Bump that is Baby Tiger

On the inside, he seems to be practicing for his gymnastic trials or kick boxing. It is reassuring to know that he is so healthy but my right ribs are a little achy. But, rather lots of kicking and turning than stillness. Maybe we'll have a feisty little tiger...
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Lions & Tigers & Baby Showers Oh My!

Sunday, February 7, 2010
Tiger credits are due
Hello From In Here


